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Be Nice Initiative Encourages Positive Actions in Schools

“Be Nice” messages recently made their way from student to student at East Grand Rapids Middle School; a bold-lettered banner in the EGR high school hallway reminds students to show kindness;  and signed pledges put the promise of niceness in writing. When put into practice, simply being nice can have a big impact, Kent ISD students are demonstrating.    

The Be Nice initiative, started by the Mental Health Foundation of West Michigan in 2011, educates students about mental well-being, anti-bullying and the importance of treating each other with civility.

Christy Buck, executive director of the foundation, started Be Nice as an extension of the seven-year-old Live Laugh Love education program, which includes interactive lessons to help students, parents and teachers recognize symptoms of depression and the warning signs of suicide. Since then, Be Nice has surpassed her expectations, as dozens of schools have started leadership groups, held assemblies or hosted workshops centered on the concepts.

From left, members of East Grand Rapids Be Nice leadership team Will Thoms, Matthew Levitt, Susan Hoffman and Emma Vargo stand in front of a banner signed by peers

East Grand Rapids senior Will Thoms brought the idea to EGR High School last fall as a way for everyone to get involved in showing basic compassion. “It’s simple. It can be used everywhere,” he said.   

Along with East Grand Rapids schools, students have formed leadership groups or participated in Be Nice activities in many districts, including:

  • Byron Center Public Schools
  • Comstock Park Public Schools
  • Grandville Public Schools
  • Rockford Public Schools
  • Cedar Springs Public Schools
  • Kelloggsville Public Schools
  • Grand Rapids Public Schools

Educators have led workshops at many local schools and several others have implemented the Live, Laugh, Love program with a Be Nice component.   

At Byron Center High School, students led an assembly in April. Sophomore Ashley Boss shared her personal experience with depression and anxiety to the students, connecting it with mental health and the need to realize kindness matters. “This is serious; depression is real and it is happening everywhere,” she said. “It really shows people that they’re not alone in this.”

Touching the whole community        

Cedar Springs Public Schools Red Hawk Elementary students create a peace sign for a recent helicopter flyover organized by the Mental Health Foundation of West Michigan. The foundation started the Be Nice initiative“It is a buy-in of an entire community that we need to recognize that how we treat each other has an effect on how people think, act and feel,” she said. Students are leading the way at schools, which makes the message resonate, said EGR junior Emma Vargo. “The message is a lot more powerful when you hear it from students,” Emma said.        

The district also tied the theme into the recent Kabookie Week, an annual week of events and assemblies named for Jimmy “Kabookie” Gerken, an East Grand Rapids alumni who served as a role model for being nice and a champion of EGR schools. Gerken, who was developmentally disabled, died in 2002.

Students are spreading the in

itiative to others with a “fly-over” campaign, featuring students  standing together outdoors in a formation tha

t spells “BE NICE” while a videographer in a helicopter records it from the air above 23 different schools, Buck said.     

Also, several brightly colored benches were located throughout Rivertown Crossings Mall, in Grandville, for a Be Nice awareness event that culminated May 1 with a Live Art event featuring local artists designing benches in the common area. Benches will be auctioned off, with the proceeds benefitting the Mental Health Foundation of West Michigan.           

A shadow of the helicopter is cast above Grand Rapids Public Schools Riverside Middle School students' be nice formation

“As compared to other anti-bullyin

g programs, it’s really proactive encouraging people to reach out to others instead of just not bullying,” said EGR senior Susan Hoffman.           

The bottom line is kindness can help someone’s overall attitude, Buck said. Bullying can lead to depression and suicide. “These simple efforts to infuse positivity into negative situations can make someone’s day and possibly save their life.” she said           

Currently fewer than 10 percent of schools in the US offer a comprehensive mental health curriculum for students. Suicide continues to be the third leading cause of death among high school students in Kent County and nationally, Buck said.


What is Be Nice?

The Mental Health Foundation

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Erin Albanese
Erin Albanese
Erin Albanese is associate managing editor and reporter, covering Byron Center, Kentwood, Wyoming and Grand Rapids Community College. She was one of the original SNN staff writers, helping launch the site in 2013 and enjoys fulfilling the mission of sharing the stories of public education. She has worked as a journalist in the Grand Rapids area since 2000. A graduate of Central Michigan University, she has written for The Grand Rapids Press, Advance Newspapers, On-the-Town Magazine and Group Tour Media. Read Erin's full bio or email Erin.


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